By: Kelly Leary© M.S., Founder of Revolution Dating
"The more you focus on your partner, their attributes, the way they make you waffle in the moment, or how they are a good listener, the more often they will do those those things and the better your relationship will be. Shift from focusing on what they don’t do to appreciating and being grateful for the things they actually do will change your life."~~Mark Rutherford, LSCW, Licensed Clinical Psychotherapist
Let's talk GRATITUDE.
First of all, thank you for sharing your time with me today and for reading this column for so many years. Our revolution of love is spreading like wildfire and my heart is filled with gratitude and nostalgia. I'm so touched and grateful to be in the middle of so many smiles! I'm also happy to announce that we are now representing same sex relationships if this is your preference. It is my duty to love and serve all people in their connections, so if you or someone you know is interested in this ULTRA private/add on/by request only service, do call us on our hotline below. Matchmakers are available for a confidential chat. This month, I am also very grateful for my amazing family, our community, our couples, our gracious clients and all First Responders!
I'm grateful for the diversity in this club...from young professionals (C.E.O.s, Entrepreneurs, Teachers, Doctors, Builders, Lawyers, Engineers, etc.) to comfortably retired senior citizens. I believe in the reciprocity of all relationships and I'm grateful that I get to learn from my clients daily, especially the business leaders and parents who have raised children to become happy adults. My GREATEST joy is working with the senior group because they are often widows or widowers and don't expect to find love again. Thanks to my Team and I, countless new couples will be celebrating this holiday season together! There is still time for you too! Last year between November and December, we had more new couples connect than any other year before! Love is in the air in November! 'Tis the season to LOVE and BE LOVED!
Today, I will show you how to boost your odds at Holiday Romance:
1. "Fish" in well-stocked waters; not the swamp, and not the junkyard. If you are going to buy a new outfit for an important night, would you go to the flea market or would you go to Bloomingdales, Macy's or Saks? This should be the basis of dating...i.e. Dating 101. If you're looking for love in a bar or online dating sites, you are putting yourself in danger financially, emotionally, and physically. Half the dating problem is solved if you look in the right places! Go where quality honest singles go!
2. Once you find a great person to date, be at your best and learn about him or her. COMMUNICATION IS KEY TO ANY HAPPY RELATIONSHIP. Find out early on if your communication styles are compatible. Don't judge a book by its cover. Look inside the book and read it. You may surprise yourself! If you need help with this...Just ask! My Team and I love to help. We are wired to help others.
3. BE FUN! Who wants to be around a grouch? Is whining sexy? Is constant drama and complaining good? I think not. If this is you, please, don't visit the revolution (yet). Do some soul searching, take a yoga class, read a book, take an online class, or go for a nature walk. Remember: Attitude of Gratitude!
Thanksgiving reminds everyone to give thanks. Ungratefulness is about as "unsexy" as you can get, so don't be the Grinch that stole happiness this Holiday Season. Showing gratitude and giving thanks to your date, your family, your co-workers or anyone in your life is a powerful way to live your best life.
Make it a point to start and end your day giving thanks (all year round). Your life will change--and no matter how young or old you are--you can REVOLUTIONIZE your love life quicker than you think. You will thank me later...just like the happy people featured in my column month after month! You have been witness to thousands of smiles that all started with one phone call to our revolutionary office!
Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours! Do take advantage of the time you have to change your love life before the "big" holiday. Hope to see and hear from you all soon! I want to know how you are doing. We have a lot of catching up to do...together. Once again, thank you for following THE Florida Matchmaker! #LetsTalk #BeRevolutionary #HolidayLoveCanBeYOURS #MaskTogether #VoteLove #VoteLife #CallMeetLoveToday #ChangeIsGood #BeKind
Kelly Leary© has 29 years in the dating industry and a Master’s Degree in Psychology. She’s been profiled by ABC News, The Palm Beach Post, PalmBeacher Magazine, etc. All Revolution Dating members are prescreened including background checks. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is not online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club membership, Kelly also holds private singles events. For more information, please call 561-630-XOXO (9696) or 772-932-HERE (4373) or visit www.revolutiondating.com <http://www.revolutiondating.com/>. *All inquiries are confidential.